Does anyone have what they believe to be a depressed spouse? I mean depressed but they're not aware or think they are?
I can't change him. I can't make him get back on ADs. I know I can't. And his record of introspection doesn't bode well for that happening in the future.
It feels like a tragedy though. That H is so negative and angry. They're HIS feelings and belittling them isn't my goal at all, but will he ever realize that the pervasive negativity and anger isn't only because of me? That he is depressed and has been for years? He took himself off ADs about 6 weeks before BD.
It's hard not to shake my fist in the air at all that.
I guess it doesn't really change much. He is who he is and he'll continue on his non-path of blame and anger and destruction.
