I also ordered the boundaries book you suggested.

How many times in my life have I said to myself "I'll do it right this time"? Wayyyy too often. It's a problem. And I thought to myself I was never ever happier than being married to that woman and this time I will do it right. I didn't. Then our marriage failed, and I said the same thing to myself, it's so important to me and I have to DB right. Do I? No.

How am I ever going to get over myself and do a 180, once and for all? frown


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15