Have been out of pocket a few days - sickness and hectic work schedule. Will try to catch up on recent events over the next couple of days.

In the meantime - could use some help on a conversation I think I need to have with W.

She is getting close to deciding on buying a new car yet has filed D paperwork. As part of that process it is my understanding (and L confirmed) that neither of us are to take any significant financial actions.......

L also suggested that if I say nothing it could be interpreted as implicit agreement because I know she is pursuing it and did not say anything to her.

Thoughts/comments on how to approach?


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork