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That, and my OW from 5 years ago called me again yesterday. We talked for a long while about the issues in her life and mine. It felt wonderful to share like that again.


Please be careful, HP. So many A's begin by talking about "the issues" in one's life. It would be very easy to turn to OW emotionally. That is not what needs to happen.

I appreciate your honesty about her.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!