it's not me that is sitting on the fence - it is her - I don't know why I am starting to feel so angry towards her. I still want the R to work and want her back but I am feeling really angry about what she did to our R
I guess I am venting here rather than sending her an IM.
She did say last night that she would not mind it if I moved the camper out of her driveway - so I did send an IM earlier that I had found a place to move it and would be moving it within the next few days. She said I could wait till I was going to go camping in a couple of weeks but I said I might as well go ahead and move it.