Originally Posted By: NAJ1964
My 2 cents - as long as she is in affair fog - she is not the same person. My WAW is the same way. Every day I look at her and think who is this person?

Stay strong, keep your boundries to protect yourself. She will crash and burn eventually is my belief.

Keep posting


Good point -- If feel the same way -- definitely not the same person in that body... so strange to witness this... and sad because I never expected to be dealing with this. I also expect her to crash and burn at some point -- and I have no idea what to expect when that happens.

But doing my best to stay strong, hold some boundaries, and to protect myself and the kids... And will definitely keep posting with the hope that someday I'll be able to post a good story of how we all came through this to become a stronger family. :-)


Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015