Haven't really talked to the wife in a long while. Don't know if she is still going to school or not. Don't know her new living situations, nothing.
We are having lunch today to write the hardship letter to the bank. Which is a real good thing because the guy that wants to buy my property. Is bringing cash to the table at a really fare price. So the bank will have to except it. And maybe it will be a quick process.
As far as the wife, I have a lot to talk about with her other than the house. We have the boys upcoming birthdays at the end of the month. We have house lawyer fees. Her dad's property connected to our old house. Plus way to much more.
I feel I have recently really dropped the rope with her. I don't think about our situation anymore. It really can't be any different from this if we get divorced. But I have to say I am kind of nervous to meet with her today. It's like meeting someone for the first time nervous.
I had to laugh about her comment yesterday when we where discussing when to meet up. She said she wished we would have done this about 3 years ago and maybe things would be different. Then stated that they still can be. As if nothing ever happened. My only comment was a lot has happened now.
Have a great day everyone, 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced