That is what I plan to do. My coach last night had a lot to say and was surprised that I feel she will say that she is done.
She told me to listen and validate and keep patient. I am my own worst enemy when it comes to making her feel pressure. I need to settle down and not apply any pressure.
She also has me working on a couple responses to situations or questions that may come up. I will help me say what I want to when or if I become emotionally flooded.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15