That is what I plan to do. My coach last night had a lot to say and was surprised that I feel she will say that she is done.

She told me to listen and validate and keep patient. I am my own worst enemy when it comes to making her feel pressure. I need to settle down and not apply any pressure.

She also has me working on a couple responses to situations or questions that may come up. I will help me say what I want to when or if I become emotionally flooded.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15