Don't move out!! She can if she wants. The consequenses will come but we as LBH never know when.
I am presently still waiting for my W to feel consequenses and it has been 19 months.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014