25Yrs, Bob -

This thread is helpful to read. Bob, I wish you so much luck...

25 - You busted your D, and your advice I've seen all over here is good...what can LBS do to demonstrate changes if there is little or no contact, and WAS is clear they want their space? Obviously respecting their wishes. But where is the opportunity?

How did you do it? Can you give us an idea of what it looked like over the years and what kept you going?


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.