And there really is no wrong or right way to do this.

We don't know what lessons you need to learn, just like you don't know what lessons I need to learn every time I go down the same rabbit hole with my S22.

I'm waiting for that to be revealed to me but if we look at each rough patch as a lesson, it's helpful. At least it is for me.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss