Oh Lou, I am so sorry...
I have been just where you are - the shock of these things and the speed with which they are done is so unbelievable.

Please keep in mind that this is how this craziness typically unfolds. I've seen it so often on here.

It's just what those who are in this type of crisis (or whatever it is) do.

It doesn't help at all, I know; it still is so hard to take.

We are gutted, but we get through. We have kids and we have our own lives to lead. We go on.

And we thank god that we are not these men who used to be fathers and husbands.