Ok so need some thoughts on this one. Last night my W clearly decided to push against the boundaries I had set up. I had asked her to keep it down if she was going to choose to talk to the OM (she is sleeping in the basement). Well last night she seem to be setting up like she has in the past for a session with him. I went to put my D8 to bed and thought I could hear my W talking. I then went into my room to settle in for the night and could definetly hear her talking. Before I could get up to go ask her to keep it down D8 got up went down stairs and told my W to keep it down. i personally think that her talking with him loudly had everything to do with me practicing detaching both last night and over the last couple days.
I think last night she might have been really feeling both my PMA (thanks to everyone here) and the fact that I'm detaching. She came up and listened to me read a story to D5... Which seemed odd... And wanted to know where I went (I spontaneously decided to buy a bottle of wine to give to a co-worker today. Because she had a really rough day yesterday) my response was simply "I needed to pick something up at the store. So just wondering is it ok that D8 took care of the problem last night? Honestly I do not want my kids involved this way at all. But she did it before I could stop her and I'm not really sure if I should have. Also D5 must have woken up in the night and crawled down to climb into bed with my W.... That hasn't happend much or at all as long as I'm here at night. I seriously can't help but see God at work here now that I've given (or am trying to as best I can) over to him.... Or her depending on your view
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
