Yes I ve had mortgage advice and have been to rental agencies. The system just works a bit different here. If you are registered for over 8y and have a low income you can get great rent deals but not on the private market.

Thanks I agree maybe the MLC section is a good one.
I do think it is partially something like that. He's makinh up for time lost when he was younger and not so desirable.
I know it can take years. Im just torn should i GAL and stay until after baby is born or should I just go (and then obviousky also GaL). I do already have a life though i work 4d a week and meet up with friends 1-2x a week and work out (at home cause he s generally gone).
I have no clue how to meet up more or have more hobbies when im looking for a house and arranging mortgage, daycare, moving, shopping furniture etc.


Me: 36
Him: 36
DD: 3y
DD2: 1.5mo
Together: 5y
Married: > 3y
D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs