Do you have family support? Right now you have to focus on you and your children. Hubby sounds like he may be in a MLC. Go to the MLC part of the forum and read there.

If it is a MLC you have no choice but to detach and try and GAL. His behaviour is immature and Narrsistic. This could go on for years.

I had a friend who's hubby wanted a divorce while she was pregnant too. He's still making a mess of his life. She went on to become a nurse, remarry and recently gave birth to a baby girl. Best of all she's happy.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.