Jim0987 #10 - getting ready for mk8

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Morning Jim

Know what you mean there but you shouldn't beat yourself up that you're a grumpy, I'm not trumpeting that Im fully detached just operationally so and I love my w and want her back, no idea if that's a possibility as she would have to want to engage and work on it.

However when my minds been drifting recently to possibilities - if that's not the case I've thought the same thing no one would ever be able to compare but then if my marriage is over its over. Anyone new would be anyone new and I need to be happy with that or any new relationship is doomed before it starts.

As you say its too early for both of us (Im still holding the rope, not reviewing that until June or until w says shes got no intention of ever trying again) so I can hardly start dating and hold marriage reconciliation as an alternate plan b, whoah! totally unfair to all involved and not me at all. One or the other.

So basically there's no rush, make Jim Mk8,9,10 the best possible and enjoy the kids, get your interior decorating on and enjoy living and go from there