Skyped with S20 this morning, he is staying at his dads house for a few days to look after the dogs.
H has taken ow away on a holiday :o(
Also - she has moved in. They have bought new furniture and its now "their" home. She shares custody of her children so they are there part time.
s20 said he is always seems to be spending money and buying stuff. He said that he feels his dad is not really happy and getting irritated with her kids being around and to him they don't seem "that" happy. But I wonder if he is just saying that to make me feel better about what is going on.
S20 asked me how I was, saying that that is what is important, as what his d is up to is crazy and not important. He said he has given up trying to talk to his d about it all as he just shuts him down saying "its my life".
Turns out that they did all spend s18 birthday together :o(
He asked if I was going to move back - I said that he and s18 are my priority so yes I will be moving back, and this is just about having time away from his d -
Idk, I am gutted he has moved her in - that has really been a twist in the knife. Its so fast - I am so shocked.
We keep saying that we never know what tomorrow will bring - I did not expect this one when I went to bed yesterday !
