I don't post often, and I'm not vet but I'm moved to respond. I agree with Starsky snd Cadet fully. I'm just in awe at the utter disrespect and callousness and I think you'd be best moving on.
Me: 40 W: 40 22 Years together, 14 Married D8 + D7 Aug 2012 - Separated Sep / Oct - Back Together May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed Now - WAW moving out