Drop the competition and scorecard, you are not in competition to be a better dad than w is a mum! It may be that way because W is in a bad space but aim not to notice. Your post appears very edgy and 'so there', I trust that is just reflection rather than attitude Mza. Your lovely daughters deserve the best dad possible and one co-parenting and interacting with their mother. Children come first Mza above all.
W is in a bad place clearly, Try to support her role rather than be in competition. Be as good a dad as you can be which I know is the case. Mza has lost his angry edge, can Mza lose his need to mark his W? Can Mza detach more? I know he will!
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW