Oh ha ok. I'll do that next time. Thanks for the tip.
She actually did that right when SHE left, for work. She's working nightshifts (nurse).
I never mentioned that. I also think the nightshift kind of killed her mojo this year. I could tell it's hard on her psych and body. Glad she's going back to day shift next week. Hope that'll also get her life back in line a bit more.

Thanks for your replys again guys.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15