She doesn't even know she is lying. She is just going to do whatever she has to - to clear the way for her to be with the OW. She is not thinking clearly.
What are your w issues with you? Has she told you? You should try to focus on your 180s
Also why do you need to leave the house and not her, she is the one that wants the d?
Has she talked at all about the effect of this possible d on the kids?
Hang in there. This has very little to do with you. And you are quite observant to call her a monster because that is what they become.
I will pray for you job wise and relationship wise.
Kiss your beautiful children and count your blessings
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13