HP the best revenge in life is to be happy. In the last two days I was told about two people I knew that had passed away. Both were younger than myself. I see people at work all the time get horrible diagnoses. Life is short. Your son only has one childhood.

An only child is very aware of the moods of their parents. They have no siblings to share life's ups and downs with so they focus on the grown ups in their lives. 25 is right. Your son is watching you and your moods.

This is not where any of us thought we would find ourselves in life. Life is not fair sometimes. The only thing you can do is work to GAL. The business and distraction will help you not obsess about your wife. That doesn't mean you are over the loss or not hoping for a different out come. It means life will go on with or without us and it's time to start living.

Get to know yourself. What do you like to do for fun? Try new things. Try to be grateful for one thing each day before going to sleep. Take your son out. Do things together. Create memories he will look back on fondly. You can do this HP.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.