Underdog, Thank you very much for your opinion.

I live in California. During the time when the mediator was preparing the agreement for us, my H wrote an email to the mediator to ask for the change without notifying me. But it seems that in our state only signed document is legally binding. And only his email can approve that he agreed the 6/8 parenting timeshare before. Maybe I was too naïve too trust him that he will not break his promise. I moved out too early. The feeling of being cheated again is really not good. I am able to calm down today and schedule an appointment with the mediator to consult how to deal with this issue.
I will keep posted. And again thank you for visiting my thread, and any opinion are appreciated.


M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013