Really really sorry if that came over wrong,
It wast meant as it clearly came across.
I've been reading the last 11 pages of yours
For the best part of an hour.

I simply meant that my situation seems to be all over the place
After reading yours I can see your situation is very very similar.

How do I get to the very beginning of your situation ?

I would be very grateful for your support/advice etc
And I hope I can offer you the same.

We seem to be at a similar stage, even the amount of weeks
W has left.

Again Im sorry if I offended you in any way,
My communication skills are one of the reasons I'm on here :-)

Take care, things usally work out for the best in the end.