Pregnant w H who doesnt want it and had affair

[Mozza]

Why can't you rent a place? There's a discussion in Maybell's thread about buying or not. Even though most Americans assume that buying is cheaper, it's not always the case. Also, with 2 kids, it would be much better for you to outsource maintenance and worries to a landlord. You could rent for a few years, save the difference (when you rent, your savings are the equivalent of your equity when you buy) and buy later. Perhaps with a new person. Or perhaps you'll move back in your current house with your chastised H. ;-)