Originally Posted By: Rzrback
You asking about specifics as to what we're doing to reconnect?

No. I'll pull a Wonka on you and let you figure it out. I'll give you one more clue.

Originally Posted By: Rzrback
I finally told her, somewhat matter-of-factly, that if that's how she truly felt then I needed to move on. I'd been searching out apartments and I was going to go ahead and see about getting one. I started discussing the logistics of getting my things packed and moved. I don't want to be her second choice just because OM isn't available.

It's amazing what that did to her state of mind. That afternoon she started talking about things we could do to reconnect emotionally, talking about future plans, etc.

So, what works in your sitch?


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
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D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.