Pregnant w H who doesnt want it and had affair

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Thank you Mozza and Happy1. Really appreciate your responses.
Ive been exploring my mortgage options (this house is 100% his so I can leave without debt). I dont qualify for affordable rent.
My main issue is I will not get buying a place sorted before delivery.Thats why Im hoping there s still an option otherwise im stuck here for at least 7-9 months. With a (probably) cheating husband. After delivery Im in no position to make clear decisions (sleep deprived etc) and will physically not be up for moving, etc.
I could stay w my mom but not for such an extended period of time and with 2 kids (she has one 2 by 2.5 square metre guestroom)..
I have Divorce Busting (very good book) and have been considering a 180 which is basically a GAL. I think. It has worked for my friend. Im not yet consistent enough though. We re going to a solution focused therapist since Mon to help us decide what to do.
Maybe its indeed time to accept that if I can 180 and GAL more he might still not change. Im just wondering how some women stay with an unfaithful husband long enough and how they got them to change.