W just told me that the confrontation yesterday got her back to reality and that she is sorry. All I 'answered' is she should stop to base her actions on if it's going to hurt me, stop lying and be truthful, even if it hurts and that I cannot accept lying and how she handled things. Then I just shut up.
Can't wait for the book to get here tomorrow. I'll also check out the other recommendations.
Lesson of today: knowing the truth helps more than it hurts.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
