Thanks Jefe. That was a good read and some good prayers for LBSs.
W is back in town after her month of travel to visit friends, family, and attend a conference. She is texting me quite a bit trying to get things sorted out. She didn't bother to update her acct info for her student loan payout, so it went to our now closed joint checking account. Which means it won't go through. Durrr
She also does not appear to understand the concept of hiring an attorney... She seems to think my attorney is "our" attorney. We have a meeting with a mediator scheduled for next week. After which I will meet with my attorney to write up the agreement.
Not that surprising, but apparently the friends she is living with are moving to OM's home town and she is moving with them. So she is probably going to quit her job to be with these friends and (surprise) closer to OM and try to volunteer with OM's company. While living off financial aid money. Wow. Go W. That plan is guaranteed to blow up in her face. Especially since OM's boss was the one saying he didn't want to hire W because she would be an HR nightmare, being a young, attractive, recently divorced woman...
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids