I wouldn't necessarily call it disaster. More of a slowing down the process. Expectations keep you planted on the front seat of the emotional roller coaster. Do a search on livestrong developing detachment.
From my experience of the program, many couples made it, but some didn't. No matter what happens this weekend, and throughout your sitch, you will grow if you put forth the effort.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
