Band of Brothers is one of my favorites. I do remember that scene.

I've gotten almost there before. We had a discussion a couple of Saturdays ago where she was going on about how she only saw me as a friend, couldn't see me as a husband, wasn't sexually attracted to me (after having sex 3 nights in a row on her initiation, btw). I finally told her, somewhat matter-of-factly, that if that's how she truly felt then I needed to move on. I'd been searching out apartments and I was going to go ahead and see about getting one. I started discussing the logistics of getting my things packed and moved. I don't want to be her second choice just because OM isn't available.

It's amazing what that did to her state of mind. That afternoon she started talking about things we could do to reconnect emotionally, talking about future plans, etc.

Unfortunately that didn't last. She backslid a couple of days later. But I think for a while she stared reality in the face and didn't like it. May be time to remind her.

And this isn't a tactic. I want my life back, with or without her.

Last edited by Rzrback; 01/13/15 07:21 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood