During the week I am so busy with work, household stuff and running I don't have the time for anything else! But I have to be honest, I am not much of a joining in sort of person anyway. The sort of things I enjoy in life are the simple things - a good book, a walk, cooking, movies etc. Really just the sort of things H and I used to do together.
H is meeting me tomorrow to discuss finances (again). Everything is still with the L's but is far from being settled so he wants me to help financially with the house costs. I already pay all the bills and I don't know how much more he is going to expect me to pay but I don't want to get into an argument with him. I want to yell that he chose all this, and now I am going to be left with massive L's fees to pay, plus I have to re-finance the house and I will be so financially and emotionally worse off.
I will have to be calm, cool and show him my best self.
Any advice on how to do this be greatly appreciated.
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014
