Thank you Starsky and Mozza. Best two replies I ever got here. I'm very thankful for your help.
Starsky: I like the first part what you suggested to say. But about saying "leave OM come back to me and work on our marriage" the timing right now would be completely off. She would think I'm nuts. We agreed on separation and I told her I'm not going to be in her way.
I know, and there's a reason why I said it should be your "position" and I wasn't suggesting that part of my post as a suggested SCRIPT to you to use right now.