I didn't really think of it as guilting. Thank you for pointing out that it might be seen like that. At the time I thought it was more just being honest that I don't like the outcome but it is what it is and that I'll be OK with that. Guess it may not have been heard that way.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
