I don't think I should push or mention that it would be a good thing for her to quit her job - this would be a lot of control over her. This job means a lot to her (possibly more than our R but not our M - if that makes sense).
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015