Actually the videos are worth a look. Pretty entertaining in a LOL kind of way in some places.
e.g. (you have to picture puppets talking to each other)
Jackal: Do you love me? Giraffe: When you say love, do you mean love as in the feeling - light and fluffy in the chest? Jackal: Yes, of course! Giraffe: I just wanted to to be sure I understand what you mean, because we giraffe's think of love as a need not a feeling*. But you mean the feeling. Jackal: (annoyed) Yes - the feeling! Giraffe: OK I'm glad I got that straight. Ask me again. Jackal: (more annoyed) DO YOU LOVE ME? Giraffe: When? Jackal: What do you mean when?! Giraffe: Well, if you mean the feeling then....feelings change....so I have to know when. Jackal: (even more annoyed) Now! I MEAN DO YOU LOVE ME NOW?! Giraffe: We'll, no.....
(in the above example the giraffe comes off as sounding annoying...but the point is really that the giraffe is coming from a position of seeking mutual understanding while the jackal is using "violent" methods to communicate and not the result they were hoping for)
* Interesting distinction, don't you think?
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