I also think it is fair to say that if you are not liking what your doc is telling you or you feel like they aren't hearing you, you should think about going to another doctor. No one will know your own body as much as you and you need a doctor who respects your thoughts and opions.
I dealt with vulvodynia (vagina pain, mostly during sex) a couple of years ago. I saw 3 different doctors before I found one that didn't try to just give me antibiotics or tell me it was all in my head.
