Strong EA after 2 years of marriage. Need advice.

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The text message clearly didn't imply that they met. I read through way over a month worth of text. All work related flirt stuff. Pretty heavy flirting to me and they were even talking about me, he knows she wants a divorce, but there was no sign of that they met. I'm sure I would've found that since she was so stupid to leave her phone after that discussion we had.

I'm almost positive that it's only EA. But ya, I wouldn't be suprised obviously. She went to a council meeting at work tonight and told me after she will be at her friends place to watch the bachelor.
I went ahead and drove by her house and her car was indeed there.
If there's anything going on she probably will be even more cautious now.

I don't want to play detective now but I'll keep my eyes open.
I rather focus on DB and myself.

Can't express how much I appreciate your help.

I'll try to give some back in this forum for all the help I got so far!