Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD - pt. 2

[gogofo]

Will a WAW test her husband?

I came home from work to find that my W had taken our nieces home from school and they were staying the night. Quite interesting as I had not heard her mention it at all. It wasn't a last minute decision either, they had their bags packed with pajamas etc.

I was happy they were here and we had some fun tonight. The old me would have been upset, but I was excited and embraced the surprise. Maybe I should have said this out loud...

So was she testing me or just figuring that I didn't need to know since she is done with me?

The night went well though. We seem to be in a weird relaxed state that doesn't naturally occur since we are both maximizers. We watched two episodes of Dr Who again, and they were good. She did give me the courtesy of pausing it when I would tend to the kids.

She has been sick and getting worse each of the last two or three days. Stress doesn't help, she even has been having more frequent heart palpitations.

So I have been trying to help out more and take care of her or things when she lets me. I found medicine for her, put kids in tub, cleaned up kitchen, and after kids, etc. This is who I am and I hope it isn't hurting the situation, I don't feel it is.

Nothing much else. I was supposed to have the kids all weekend while the W was in Reno but she mentioned that her parents wanted to watch them overnight a night or two so I may slip out of town with a couple of friends for some boys time.