Strong EA after 2 years of marriage. Need advice.

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Thanks Mozza, I'll be reading into some vets threads and also read the book once it gets here.

I am already regretting that I set the boundary that is going to have very bad influence on my life. But it is something she will again see as big weakness, that I say something and then I won't do it.

I will be gone for work over the next couple of weekends. Being away is so painful, I feel so powerless. But like you said it is very common in here, my feelings are fresh but maybe I shouldn't let myself down so much.

But the fact that it's all happening at her work which she isn't going to leave anytime soon is killing me. How in the world are you gonna get the EA out of her head if she sees him on a regular basis.

And how should I actually deal with her when we see each other? I am just plainly mad that she lied to me and the trust is completely gone.