LOL!!! I was working in a place I couldn't get online during work, today, but you guys are hilarious. I like the way you all think.
I'll add farting without being embarrassed because there's no one around to care. ROFL!
And since we're discussing bad habits, how about tinkling and getting pee-pee splatter on the floor, where it would dry and later my socks would get stuck in it? Or leaving the cupboards or drawers open after getting something from them? Yep...BF!
My h used to chastise the dog for farting, his old dog used to get very upset too. Shows he was punished for it. Who in their right mind punished a dog for farting? Nowadays the dogs squeak and look for where the Sound came from no gulit.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I agree with Wonka that eating what and when I want is one of the top benefits to living on my own as well as having the entire bed, comforter and pillows all to myself! YES!
Decorating just how I like and keeping the house as clean or messy as I want is also terrific.
Oddly, the WAH is now admiring my decorating taste and says he also wants some of the same furnishings for his house. Interesting because his supposedly superior taste and style was one of the reasons he left me... a very weird reason anyway but that is another subject.
And thanks Wonka, now I want some flaming hot cheetos for dinner.
(He says with a definite Texas drawl that apparently comes across in print, too.)
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
I'm okay. Nothing new to report, just sort of existing. LOL!
I went to the library in my new town yesterday and got a library card. It's official now!
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
All these small baby steps and changes cumulate they make us new people.
Some are huge changes, new flats, new jobs, new friends, others are almost imperceptible library cards, coffee shops, dance classes, gym memberships, hairstyles, new outfits, healthier eating, kick ass shoes and new bedding. All are important and all make changes possible.
All it takes is the will to become, to improve and detachment follows as it must, inevitably as night follows day. We progress and grow with effort despite the pain.
Little, so much change, both large and small will keep you moving forward. So excited for you Little. Vanilla
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Thinking and thinking and thinking and stinkin' thinkin'.
Lonely and bored. Stayed home with a migraine. Thinking about BF and OW and I really should stop that. Craving [censored].
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Migraines suck, coming from someone who's suffered with them for way over 20 years. Sorry you're feeling low tonight, happens to the best of us. I'm doing well nowadays but doesn't change my feeling lonely, here tonight watching arrow and generally doing ok but boy do I miss female companionship my w specifically.
I, we here, know how you feel my friend
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
but yes its stinkin thinkin, but like edz says we know how you feel. It will pass though, like the migraine, because you have a great new place and good stuff going on.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
I guess what it comes down to is I wish it was me he picked. I wish I had been important to him, too important to lose.
Oh well. This, too, shall pass.
Also, we have so much in common. Every day I see something I want to share with him, to talk about. It drives me up a wall. I wish I could some how forget we existed as a pair.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
I can relate to all of this, Little. And talk about sexually frustrated. Diamonds ARE NOT the hardest substance know to man.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
