Originally Posted By: Marylov
Right now I am not worried about him changing. I truly believe that by changing my behavior, he will adjust his behavior bc I will no longer be making him miserable


Mary,

You are on the right path. The change begins with you, and you have already begun your journey. The retreat will be an eye opening experience for you and your husband. Remember to keep your expectations in check, and validate. You'll be fine.

Edit...the program is designed for you to validate.

Last edited by LITB; 01/13/15 03:41 AM.
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