Have you seen the movie 'Office Space' that article reminded me of that movie.
So this is the money quote in that article (censored of course) :
Because when we give too many "bleeps", when we choose to give a "bleep" about everything, then we feel as though we are perpetually entitled to feel comfortable and happy at all times, that’s when life "bleeps" us.
Yep, that's MCS in a nutshell. That's my problem right now.
I gave a "bleep" about everything and now that something that is worth giving a "bleep," I'm not sure what other "bleeps" to give a "bleep" about.
Literally, true story, the night of BD, I was telling W how fortunate and comfortable our life was and how we achieved this by our hardwork and planning. I thought we were in a good place at that time......nope, only one of us was...
Well, maybe thats why she feels she is emotionally unsafe with me. Its obvious I wasn't quite in tune with her emotions at that point. Then when BD comes a couple hours later, instant breakdown for MCS. Yeah, proverbial life upside down.
Last edited by MCS; 01/13/1503:09 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
