Thanks for asking, I listened to my DB coach and staying away from NC message for now. W says she's following through with ending A and insisting on NC . We have a MC session on Sat. I'm going to cancel if it's not done by then.
Just read one of your posts . Funny, my wife says the same thing it's not about OM it's about her. Sounds like script to me. But I do know she's suffering badly about lots of things. But the end result is still the end result. She chose to cheat. Instead of expressing her unhappiness. She's been acting a bit nicer lately, but hasn't shown any remorse or humility as of yet and I know that's what I'm going to need to heal and Reconcile and forgive. Just not sure how much time I'm going to give her to get to rock bottom. But I don't think I will be able to stay married to her unless I do see those important actions to build my trust back in her.
