a young marriage in trouble

[lnlyshp]

Took a big step today (to me anyway) by logging onto FB for the first time since she left and updating my relationship status. Saw she had changed her name (deleted my last name). I felt as if keeping my status as "Married to W" was lying to myself in a way. I also unfriended her and plan to speak to her about this in time to explain that it is not an act of anger but rather something that I need to do in order to move on.

Posted a short status explaining that she and I are no longer together, that we have not been since November, and thanking everyone who has supported me during this difficult time.

I am not sure this is the right move to "save" my relationship, but this was more about me. I don't want to go the rest of my life being afraid of logging onto FB. I'm not a big user anyway but it is a nice tool to stay in contact with old friends.

It is time to accept that W is STBXW.

Like I read in the detachment thread, it is time to let her go, work on myself and say a prayer to the universe that one day we will find our way back to each other.

- ship