I moved board too, to get a better and fresh discussion regarding the EA.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2526283#Post2526283

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15