I see, it's about ME. I am very unwilling to do that. I do not want this. But what is the solution?
What defines an open marriage and what is a healthy boundary?

FYI my situation is pretty bad since I can hardly support myself since I built my life and work life here from scratch after moving from Germany.

Sorry for all the questions, I ordered DR book but it won't be here until Wednesday and I have an appointment at a therapist, but not before next Monday.



Last edited by Complex; 01/13/15 12:28 AM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15