I thought everything was okay.....(Part 3)

[MCS]

Well, so much for thinking that I was finally getting detached.

Kids come back and tell me that OM was over to watch the football game. His favorite team, of course. W their biggest fan too, even though she didn't even like football when we were together. Kids say mom bought football cupcakes, so I say, 'was it a party?' Nope, just Mr. OM.

Well, guess who I saw during the same time at the store? OM's GF shopping with their kid and I guess her mom. She didn't see me, but gotta love small towns...

So, W told me that R with OM was over and he told GF about what was happening....sure. It probably went like this.......
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"Hey, GF. I'm gonna head out to my OW, (who's just my really good friend now.) Remember, I told you that you have nothing to worry about. Why don't you head out shopping with the kid."

"No problem, OM. I've got this, wow you're such a good catch. I'm glad that things didn't work out for you and MCS's W."
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And W claimed that I destroyed her self esteem?!? How about knowing getting used and being okay with it. Anyway, I can't change what she's doing, although I'm feeling really sad for her that she left her marriage and still feels the need to live in a lie. One lie she tried to escape with me, one still there for his family. Its a sad, sad world.

What I'm struggling with is the kids. Is it fair to set the boundary that OM is not around the kids? She has the kids for a whole 2 days and can't seem to spend it just with them. This is on the heels of her saying that "MCS, the kids are first in my life right now...." B.S.

She's past my limit with this, I guess I'll ask MC what's the best approach to address it.