Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Why would you expect a dishonorable man -- a PREDATOR -- to do the honorable thing?

Don't confront him. Confront your WIFE.


Starsky


I did. She tells me she can NOT change her feelings and that there is no way. She is so stubborn. And that even if she cut contact with him our marriage would be over.
So what can I expect now? Nothing probably. I wouldn't even be surprised if their relationship will become stronger now and become physical at some point.
Should I actually ask her to cut contact?


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15