Why would you expect a dishonorable man -- a PREDATOR -- to do the honorable thing?
Don't confront him. Confront your WIFE.
Starsky
I did. She tells me she can NOT change her feelings and that there is no way. She is so stubborn. And that even if she cut contact with him our marriage would be over. So what can I expect now? Nothing probably. I wouldn't even be surprised if their relationship will become stronger now and become physical at some point. Should I actually ask her to cut contact?
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15