No didnt confront the affair partners. thought about getting divorce papers delivered to him at his office but ultimately in my situation its not about him and so confronting isnt whats needed
generally i think the advice is not to and for the most part you dont want to talk about or acknowledge the OM very much (except here)
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
